Beijing 56th high school junior Guo Wei and his classmates is to end his second career: sweep in a mountain sheep in sheep manure, in peanuts ploughing, under the plum trees to pick the fruit, steamed rolls in the kitchen ... ...

In the summer holidays approaching, micro-Guo and his classmates took part in the one-week organized by the Beijing Municipal Education Commission "learning" activity. In mid-July, Beijing is scorching, not close to goats, a strong smell the smell will smell, however, said Guo Wei, first came to really "smell", "stand", now "used".

"Can't stand" to "used to" is Guo micro-agricultural change in a week. However, educators are looking for is not just that. Many people criticism: now of city children because parents for they do have too more, get what will "deserved", they not know Thanksgiving; daily with phone, and computer for with, rarely listening to frog drum cicada ming, and see sunrise sunset of splendor, they heart narrow; can buy to various fruits vegetables, is no experience plant staged blossom of process, they only know obtained not understand pay; is small on from TV in see has love, but is missing parents of accompanied, they emotional indifference...... Experts point out that "urban disease" is the population to big cities and caused a series of social problems, while this kind of problem is a kind of away from the natural environment, survive in the closed apartment, material reasons such as too rich, but also a "City". Beijing Municipal Commission of education a teaching and research staff pointed out that, apart from learning cooking, housekeeping and crop management. These "taste" programmes can cure children of the city? Child's education means many problems because not enough rich

When first is tidy. Although already 44 years old, but many children do not have their own quilts, and even many people who have no bed. "Parents have to do anything at home, rural dormitory have to do anything. "Experimental school of Beijing Normal University second high west side middle school students Huang Zhuoshuai said that first night in bed, although several students working together" is still running around in circles ".

"Teachers exercise child's housekeeping as a first priority. "Beijing 56th high school vice principal, said Zhang shuguang, teachers will check every day to the House, found that problems are recorded in" feedback form ", put it on a table in the dormitory, after the children had come back up again," a few days ago on daily feedback form there will be a lot of problems, then less and less. " "Our housekeeping started is very irregular, and finally became a pacesetter. "Huang Zhuoshuai said. Many adults complain that today's kids have eyes only for their own, but when the children are away from school and family, a lot of things after having hands-on, their eyes began to others.

"Children learn steamed rolls, 12 people make a small drawer rolls. Usually they two can eat rolls. "Wang Jianmei said. Wang is Xicheng, Beijing Normal University second high school grade grade team leader, during which she lived together with children, "results of the children have had enough to eat rolls down, to bring teachers and students not to go."

"We always said the children have a lot of problems, but in fact, these problems arise because our educational tools is not rich enough. "Wang Jianmei said the teacher, usually in schools, at home, the children most of her time learning, life and labor accounts for a small proportion. They never had a chance to feel the joy of labor, also can not understand other people's hard work, which comes from the heart of sharing? Now, Huang Zhuoshuai had left for the summer, and at home will pack the room will also take care of parents did not make the beds. Every child a city behind "love shall not be treated as" parents

Take part in a "rural", the child's "urban disease", please? If you want to give the child "urban disease" with one drug, "Agriculture" may be the recipe of blindly, but to cure the child of "urban disease", not only by this drug.

In the Salon of a study-related, a famous high school international division in Beijing, Wang said: "Chinese parents are most in need of reassessment. "Introduced Wang, not long ago, school 3 discipline children 3 warning letters were issued, two of the parents communicate with teachers, and expressed its willingness to cooperate with the teacher to help your child to correct his mistakes. But another parent can not stand, repeatedly stressed that their children never make mistakes, and how the school will make a mistake? Said children suffer poor now, "parents when setbacks were not calm at calm, how children can face up to the failures and setbacks? "The King said.

People are saying, "behind every successful children is a successful parent. "Similarly," every ' urban ' behind the child also has a ' love shall not be treated as ' parents. ” "When I first came to study agriculture base, many parents continued to give teachers information, detail. "Beijing 156th middle school vice principal, Julie said, some even their own children how to drink water, drink water temperatures are to be told. Some parents of children "shall not be treated as" love is because of inertia. Because the children never let go of her hand and produces distrust.

This appears due to distrust of parents "don't let go" also often lead to the reversal, resulting in parent-child conflict between. "My mother always said was, ' you can't live without cell phones, no phone and no computer of the time didn't we live quite good '. In fact, mobile is our likes, habits, way of understanding the world, we should have been able to control myself. "Huang Zhuoshuai said, but more so the more likely" phone not in hand ", wants to prove that he was right, they were wrong, trying to prove that an era had an era of living. To put children's "illness" starts from the parents.

In fact, when parents of young children to love the "shall not be treated as" also belongs to the "muscular interstices", treatment is simple: parents learn to let go, learn to trust, children's problems can be solved. When farmers have not started, the teachers will think of good family child might stand, "results the rural scene, these children are rushing to work. "Wang Jianmei introduced on some children learn to eat bitter, but, while they were working in the ability of particularly strong, very carefully.

Without the protection of parents and children anything can get on their own. Pulse of the city has nothing to do with the size of a city

Children in big cities are not the only possible "urban disease", in fact, the child will have "urban disease" has nothing to do with the size of a city, living with parents who create children's learning environment and condition. Moreover, due to the view of literacy, small towns parents size, influence of the child mood of urgency this fled, children either left or indulgence, or instant success, some parents in this combined swing in several States.

This allows, children suffering from some small town "urban disease" condition is more complex. Recently, the land Lady, living in a small town in the South of the cold war with my son. Son just finished his entrance examination this year, admitted to a prestigious University in Beijing. Son wants a new iPhone, Ms LU did not agree, to his son bought a Chinese mobile phone. IPhone is just the fuse.

Ms land belonging to early marriage and childbearing, "the young do not know marriage, quarreled with her husband nearly every day, neither of us whether it son." Later, Ms LU became a single mother. In order to prove that they can live better, Ms LU son set a goal: to enter University, got up to Beijing in the future. Ms Yu Shilu started strict with son's study, the son truly care in their daily lives, whatever they want. Sons live with life in the big city kids virtually intact.

Moreover, since the divorce, Ms land never to take his son back home. Land Lady's home in the mountains, home to mountain roads and to turbulence, to mosquito bites, went to the field labor, into the garden to pick the vegetables ... ... Land, Ms, all of these things are not only endures, but bad for the study. In addition, this is also her son's set-the big city who in the future – do not match, so she lets her son away from the village, away from rural relatives. This time, the son finally got up to the ideal of the urban, land-Lady is doing all for her son, so when he was proposed as long as Apple phone, Ms LU has no money in their pockets is not promised.

Land Lady initially thought as long as their toil, and his son had spent almost all the money talk with my son, and son must be understood. But unexpectedly, the son does not understand, and even threatened her with Beijing do not go to school. Thought I pay so much to enjoy when my son thanked, but their son "not sensible", "cold" and land Lady grieve.

Such parents had "disease in bone marrow", when aware of their problems, often children have formed, and it is difficult to correct. "Urban disease" after all, is caused by several factors, is a chronic disease. We can't expect children to "dirt", the child will be "reassembled" into a brand new. However, by way of the city leads to disease, away from the city to treat is a correct direction, but in the treatment of children at the same time, standing behind them, adults should be treated simultaneously.